جذباتی بدسلوکی Emotional Abuse

جذباتی بدسلوکی بہت اہم سماجی مسلئہ ہے. اس کی کچھ شناختیں مندرجہ ذیل میں بیان کی جا رہی ہیں:



  • آپ کو مکمل طور پر یا اکثر و بیشتر اپنے دوستوں یا گھر والوں سے ملنے نہ دینا.
  • غیر فعال جارحانہ تبصرہ کرتے ہوۓ صرف اپنی مرضی کے کام کروانا.
  • آپ میں عدم اعتماد پیدا کرنا کہ آپ بدصورت اور ناکارہ ہیں اور آپ کو کوئی نہیں چاہتا


  • آپ سے انسان کی بجانے بطور ملکیت پیش آنا. اور آپ کو ہر کام کے لئے اجازت منگوانا.
  • جانتے  بوجھتے آپ کو پریشان کرنے والے کام کرنا . اور الزام بھی آپ پر لگانا کے آپ کے ردعمل کے اظہار کے  نتیجے میں سب معاملات خراب ہوے ہیں.
  • جب بھی آپ چھوڑنے کی ہمت کا مظاہرہ کریں تو خود کو ختم کرنے کی دھمکی دیتے ہوۓ اپ کو روک لینا اور پہلے سے زیادہ استحصال کرنا.




دوستوں، زیادتی/ بدسلوکی صرف جسمانی نہیں ہوتی. اس کے خلاف شعور پیدا کریں اور آوازاٹھائیں...

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