Lasting Social Trend: Recommended Prescription

I have been upset for quite a time for numerous reasons yet the social challenges contribute much difficulty to everyday life. Home is the time when you are seeking some peace in your private space but South East Asia is the region where sibling drama can take everlasting negative impression. There are four major reasons which is the cause of the sibling rivalries.

Diagnosis

Everyone knows having kids and raising them is very tricky. In a life of a child there comes four phases where the child gets much involved and then the base of family gets shattered. Over the period of time this broken mirror only show us a blur and unclear image of other family members. The major reason of this rivalry starts with the element of jealousy when we have the most favorite child “The Chosen One”. Over the period of time this chosen child gets attention and priority over other siblings. Hence the child become the major target and sooner or later he/she will be bashed.

During the teen ages, the parents will take control of your every decision and it will be the time when over a small sibling fight your parents will tell you to avoid every possible contact with your brother or sister. This practice by parents is not acceptable for the progressive society. The parents should be responsible enough to tell their kids to talk about the differences and sort out their matter in a peaceful way. This trend won’t grow until or unless the parents take the responsibility of grooming responsible children.

The mid phase of your life is occupied by fights over “Women”. This women can be your mother, sister or wife. Your mother or sister will keep telling among siblings that one is right and other is wrong. This develops a thinking pattern where the rumors will take it all. After marriage, in joint family system, the daughter in law is the real discomfort, and portraying her ill-doing will be presented before every person known. The reception of such behavior from in laws trends a reaction which is mixture of grudges. The wife at the right time slowly poison the husband against family and then the disputes among family start a chain reaction. Man has proven to be very illogical in family matters so he would believe whatever is coming from his mother, sister, or wife. Men need to authentically verify the news and look for reality so that he could know the right then and reach the right decision. In doing so he will maintain his audacity about reaching the truth.

The end to all happens when the inheritance process takes place. The materialistic approach tends to destroy everything which was left from the emotional connection of the family from above all situations. Yet the institution of family weakens.

Prescription

Parents shall know that the secret to a lasting sibling relations lies in the notion to discard the myth of “The Chosen One”. No favoritism when raising the kids will provide a perfect environment to groom into.

Participate in Siblings fight as a mediator. Try to escalate the issue as much as possible so that the hatred and discomfort for each other will go away.

Women can play very positive role in being the joint of the family. The in-laws should be accommodating to promote the healthy and friendly atmosphere in family.


By catering all these issues, automatically, there will be respect, love, and a value of sacrifice which will help maintaining the integrity of family over the inheritance issues. No materialistic approach will harm the family connection.

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